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Finishing Your Degree in the Midst of Life's Challenges

October 16, 2025

By Amy Fienen

The path to a college degree is not always a traditional one.

To meet the needs of students who don鈥檛 go straight through college following high school, 香蕉视频官网 offers a bachelor鈥檚 degree completion program designed for students juggling adult responsibilities.

The online and evening class format allows students the flexibility to work full-time and raise families while finishing their degree with the support of a Christian community of faculty, staff and fellow students. Three students from the May 2025 degree completion program share how they overcame personal challenges to become college graduates.

FPU changed my life. It opened doors for me and helped me grow as a parent and as a student.
Lance Torres

Lance Torres

When Lance Torres enrolled in the degree completion program, he kept it secret from most of his family and friends. Still carrying the shame of struggling through high school and community college, he didn鈥檛 want his loved ones to know if he failed. 鈥淪chool and I never really got along; I barely graduated from high school,鈥 he says, attributing his challenges to dyslexia and ADHD.

Lance, who graduated with a B.A. in Business Administration: Organizational Leadership, says the degree completion program helped him achieve a goal that once seemed impossible. 鈥淔PU changed my life. It opened doors for me and helped me grow as a parent and as a student,鈥 he says. 鈥淓verything in the degree completion program is tailored to students being able to work while getting their degree.鈥

Lance, 35, began working as a cashier at Rite Aid while attending high school in Modesto. A transfer to cashiering in the pharmacy led to him getting his pharmacy tech license in 2013. A year later, he married his wife, Lindsay, and their family has since expanded to include three children: Aria, 8; Brielle, 4; and 4-month-old Parker. Lance says it was during the COVID pandemic that he started considering avenues to make more money to help support his growing family.

In 2021, Lance enrolled at FPU, hopeful that a management degree would improve his career options. 

He continued working full-time as a pharmacy tech, hopping on condensed six-week Zoom classes after work, then carving out time for studying and homework. Lindsay, a full-time pre-school teacher, was working on her teaching credential and master鈥檚 degree at the same time, yet the couple managed to juggle careers, young children and school. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all about time management, accountability and having a good support system,鈥 Lance says.

During his final year of the program, Lance鈥檚 27-year-old brother Ryan was diagnosed with cancer. Despite being the younger brother, Ryan served as a spiritual mentor for Lance, buying him his first adult study Bible and FaceTiming to help him with FPU鈥檚 required Bible classes. Ryan, an officer with the 香蕉视频官网 Police Department, lost his 10-month battle with cancer in March, just two months before Lance鈥檚 graduation.

Lance says the faith journey he鈥檚 been on since enrolling at FPU and his brother鈥檚 unwavering belief in Jesus have helped him as he walks through the loss. 鈥淕rowing up, I thought the Bible was just words on a page and church youth group was fun, but FPU taught me how to interpret the Bible and how to apply my faith in the workplace,鈥 he says.

It wasn鈥檛 until Lance officially qualified for graduation that he proudly told his in-laws he was about to be a college graduate, finally free of the fear of failure he鈥檇 carried since high school. 鈥淔or someone who struggled in school, this was easier for me than a traditional university,鈥 he says. 鈥淚t wasn鈥檛 easy, but it was worth it.鈥 Lance is hoping to transition out of the pharmacy and into a career in pharmaceutical sales.

Lance hopes his children have learned what resilience looks like from watching him. 鈥淢y kids will know that I struggled in school, but I buckled down and did it,鈥 he says. 鈥淎s a Christian, all I can hope for is to change one person鈥檚 life. Sharing my story is my way of serving.鈥

I鈥檝e grown so much deeper in my faith than I would have at a state school.
Hailie Benetti

Hailie Benetti

At the age of 21, Hailie Benetti was the youngest person in her degree completion cohort, and while her college experience wasn鈥檛 the one she dreamt of in high school, she calls it one of the best decisions she鈥檚 ever made.

When Hailie graduated in the top 20 of her class from Los Banos High School, she already had 24 college credits under her belt. She鈥檇 hoped to attend a Christian college or university in southern California, but her family needed her at home, so she spent three semesters at Merced College. In January 2024, she transferred into FPU鈥檚 degree completion program to earn a B.A. in Business Administration: Organizational Leadership. Hailie鈥檚 mom is a single parent whose career takes her away from 7:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. every day, so the responsibility of caring for her four-year-old sister, Alivia, falls to Hailie.

With the demands of being a full-time big sister and preschool teacher to Alivia, online school made the most sense for Hailie, who thrived in the program that provided the connections to students and professors she longed for, even in an online setting. 

鈥淚鈥檝e gained so many friendships; we talk almost daily,鈥 she says of her classmates. 鈥淚鈥檝e loved surrounding myself with people I get along with鈥攖hey鈥檙e some of the best people I鈥檝e met in my life.鈥 She met her best friend during the program and found the love and support online that she once thought could only be found in a traditional college setting.

In addition to the friendships she鈥檚 made, Hailie saw her faith flourish during her time at FPU. She enjoyed the weekly faith integration discussions and the spiritual support she received from classmates and professors. She says the time they spent together in prayer kept her motivated throughout the program. 鈥淚鈥檝e grown so much deeper in my faith than I would have at a state school,鈥 she says. Hailie was baptized in June.

Once you figure out your own rhythm, it鈥檚 pretty easy to navigate.
Michael Romo

Michael Romo

When Michael Romo made the decision to go back to college in his 30s, he felt like he鈥檇 be better off on the janitorial team than in a classroom. But two and a half years later, with his B.A. in Liberal Arts in hand, Michael is thankful he decided to leave his building maintenance career behind him and keep working toward his dream of becoming a teacher.

After graduating from Clovis West High School in 2006, Michael attended 香蕉视频官网 City College until he dropped out when he became a father. After spending some time as a stay-at-home dad, he went to work as a nursing assistant for disabled youth and adults. He transitioned into building maintenance but eventually felt the toll that was taking on his body.

With an ex-wife who lives out of state, the single father of 13-year-old Luke, 12-year-old Grace and 10-year-old Elijah knew he needed to make a change, and it was thanks to his brother鈥檚 encouragement that he decided to go back to school to become a high school social science teacher. He initially enrolled in just one class of FPU鈥檚 degree completion program but quickly realized he could handle more.

Michael says he initially struggled to make meaningful connections with his classmates and professors but eventually found himself in a position to encourage fellow students who grappled with finding their way. 

鈥淚t can seem overwhelming when you first start, but like Dory in Finding Nemo, I encouraged them to just keep swimming,鈥 he says. 鈥淥nce you figure out your own rhythm, it鈥檚 pretty easy to navigate.鈥

For Michael, who doesn鈥檛 consider himself a Christian, tackling the two required Bible classes proved challenging, but helped him examine why his childhood beliefs didn鈥檛 follow him into adulthood.

In addition to the flexibility to work at his own pace while juggling a job and children, Michael says his classes prepared him to start the teaching credential program this summer. He plans to eventually earn his master鈥檚 degree. 鈥淭hey teach the classes in a way that鈥檚 geared towards helping you learn how to teach subjects yourself,鈥 he says. 鈥淭he program is challenging but doable. I鈥檇 highly recommend it.鈥

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Amy Fienen

Amy Fienen is a freelance writer who loves being entrusted with peoples' stories. When not writing, she works in non-profit communications and marketing. She's spent half her life in her hometown of Kingsburg and the other half in Southern California (where she graduated from Azusa Pacific University), Arizona and Colorado. 

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